I haven't joined a womans forum before but what I wanna know is how much do girls really care about size? I've never been in a relationship before n never had any probs but I got a lot of girl friends and they go on all the time about the size of their boyfriends penises
 
I ain't got a small one but its no trouser snake either if u get me    
 
be good to hear how important these things r........

Hello Stormer,
 
Any girl that tells you size doesn't count is probably not being very honest. But what I've understood that many guys have a size fixation and that most of them are quite within the 'useful' range if you get my drift.
 
Size can matter for two reasons - the really small for obvious reasons and the really big for obvious reaons too (ouch). But really small means really small and me and my chums have yet to come across one like that, or at least no one has ever admitted to it.
 
You should definitely read the articles here on the site in the http://sexuality.doctissimo.com/se [...] haping-up/ section as there is some interesting facts and figures.
 
In any case, most girls would tell you that it is more about the guy himself and what he knows  about lovemaking than just size

I would absolutely agree! Stormer dear don't let this affect how you behave towards girls. Believe it or not, that is not the first thing, or even second thing a girl thinks about when she is getting to know you.
 
Im not saying size doesn't make any difference, but what's much more important is what's in your head and heart..and that will come accross during lovemaking, making the experience much more enjoyable than just the physical process (which, incidently, many women claim not to enjoy that much!)

Its not what you have its what u do with it    
I've had a boyfriend who was too big for me and i think that's much worse...
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and....it ain't what you do, it's the way that you do it!!!!  If you get my drift!  

Thanks ladies!!  

Interesting thread.
I'm having some problems in my latest relationship, and its not the first time either.
I'm a slim/athletic 6' guy, but fairly big down there.
I'm in a relationship (5 months) and its going the same way as my last one, we can't find ANY position where penetrative sex is not painful for her.
My last partner was fairly broadminded and the only way we could have intercouse was back-door sex, but after 3 years, we both decided to call it a day, sadly.
Now history is repeating itself, except this time my GF is not that keen on anal.
I honestly don't know what to do as this problem has plagued me for years.

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Have you tried looking at the Karma Sutra? There are specific editions for men who are rather big in the trouser department. I have a copy that tells you how to have sex in that certain position if you are a very large man.
 
Worth a shot. Im not really sure what else you can do?!

I thought i'd have a quick look online and I found this interesting article: http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_rel [...] issize.htm
 
Look where it says that a womans vagina can stretch to accommodate any size! I remember now hearing about this! As long as she isn't rushed into sex and can relax you should be able to have painless sex with her.
 
[#fff000]Virtually every man forgets that it doesn't matter how long or how short your penis is, because the vagina will accommodate itself to any length.
The vagina of a woman who hasn't had a child is only 7.5cm (3 inches) long when she's not sexually excited. The figures for women who have had babies are only slightly different.
Even when aroused, a woman's vagina usually extends only to a length of about 10cm (4 inches).
 
 This means any man's penis will fill her vagina completely, unless you happen to be one of those rare guys with an erect penile length of less than four inches.
 
You're probably now wondering how the average man with an erection of six inches manages to insert his penis into the vagina at all.
 
The vagina has the most remarkable capacity for lengthening if something is introduced into it gradually.
 
So the exceptional man whose erect penis is eight inches long can still make love to any woman, providing he excites her properly and introduces his organ very slowly. If he does this, her vagina will lengthen by 150 or 200 per cent to accommodate him.[/#2a00d4]

The same way men have different sizes in penis, women have different size of vagina, we extend but there's a limit, some women are really deep, others aren't.

I think the thickness is more important than the length...  

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Just do it
 
To be accepted you have to accept yourself
 

girls said all time thaz 'nt mater with a dick size but they want a one big...

I am not so big, my wife loves big and is very honest about it, she uses her old boyfriend all the time to satisfy her. Really it does matter to most women and especially to my wife.

Hello stormer!
 
I only arrive now, so, please excuse my being late. Also, I am french, so please excuse my spelling and style...
 
I suppose there are many different girls and women. So each one of them have their opinion on the size, the same way some like tall or short men.
 
As far as I am concerned, size does not matter much. Love does and the way the man does sex with me is important.
Were I able to chose, I would you a big cock, width is more important for me. but I really do not care if the man does not have my ideal size.
 
I have had an unforgettable lover who was impotent : size = 0 He made love to me. You men have other appendices, hands, tongue, and brain !
this man used his fingers and his tongue, simultaneously and at the same time, giving me sensations no-one has ever given me. The 1 day beard made sensations more exciting on my own sex and he never penetrated me, for it was impossible.
 
I made him a blow job without erection and he had evident pleasure, spasm and noises cannot be faked !
 
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Another point : lesbians do not have penises... Do they lack pleasure ? Of course not !
 
So accept yourself, your size and please your partner the way you are.
 
This is the main secret
 
With love and comprehension
   
 
 

most girls will agree that - SIZE DOES MATTER!    
 

It takes time for the girl to get used to a large penis.